Reader's View: Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find - and Keep - Love

My Immediate thoughts while reading this book:

• Do we have science, in the way each adult feels or behaves in a relationship? Yes !!
• Is it called Adult Attachment styles ? Yes !!
• Is it similar to the way kids were with their mom, when mom's absence was noted ? Yes !!
• Types of Adult Attachment are Anxious, Secure and Avoidant ? Yes !! 
• Understanding these styles in adults could help you to get/change a relationship in positive way? Yes !!
• Is it possible to find our own Attachment style ? Of course yes!! (Survey's to find our attachment styles are given in the book.)

                                                    

Attached, explains us why either we or our partners are behaving in certain way in the relationship, even though we wanted to have a good relationship.. Also explains how to overcome it to have better relationship or find correct partner if you are single.. Many given real time examples are helping to understand the situation and its solution better. 

Though, As a Indian I felt May be all the examples are not suited for an Indian type of peoples. Also I felt reading the book alone don't change your life, it gives insight, knowledge and ideas about relationships but the real time implementation all depends on us... 

Above all, authors highlighted many times in the book that 'Its no shame to be expecting certain amount of closeness in a relationship. It always unique for each individual and its their right to ask for it.' This book helps to ask for it in correct way. As a reader I am personally happy that its no shame to be in certain way, and avoids guilt in me. 

Below is the Short recap from the complete book : 

Read the book if you are looking for any ideas on relationships or even if you are not, it might surely help when needed ☺. And have a happy life. Wish you all good luck. 💞